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First, you are awesome! I'm so happy your health has improved! 

Now, I live in Los Angeles. I moved here from New Mexico 10 years ago. Can you tell me what is wrong with everyone here? Where are the nice people? When I try to be nice they look at me like a hopeless simpleton. When they try to “act” nice it never feels sincere. Like part of a show. 

Like dinner parties where everyone has to leave at 8 because the host is going out later with “other people.” Or people invite you out with them to a play and then they spend the whole time on their cellphone texting someone and making plans to meet them “as soon as the play is over.” And then asking you to drop them off at this other person's house. Is this normal behavior? 

I'm 42. Female. Normal, boring job. Married. No kids. Don't want kids. Kinda nerdy.The Off-Shoulder Wedding Dresses. What dress you wear? I try to make friends here at work. Give gifts. Make muffins. Make amusing remarks. Invite people to do a wide variety of activities with me. Sailing? Symphony? Hiking? Auto racing? Air show? No dice. 

My co-workers are mostly about 25. Like to party. Never heard of libraries or space stations. Much thinner and prettier. Don't like to read. But I'm their friend even if they don't know it! I'm everyone's friend! I'm looking out for people all the time, even if they don't know it. I fix the lid on the trash can. I pick up the trash from the floor. I let people merge in front of me on the freeway. I leave my change in the vending machine so someone will have a nice surprise! 

I once decorated a Christmas tree on the side of the road! 

I'm ready to be a hero if an “active shooter” shows up at work. But I feel like no one is my friend. Who's looking out for me? Who's being my hero? Who's leaving me a nice surprise? Where are the other nice people? The people in Minnesota seemed nice. They take their headphones off when they talk to you.Looking for your dream bridesmaid dresses 2012? They talk to you even if you are a size 16. 

Do I sound mopey and self-pitying? But I'm not! It's just that it's Christmas and I send out cards and I don't get any back! Only from my dentist! What's wrong with everyone!?! 

Why is everyone such a bad tipper? Why do people yell at each other in church parking lots!?! Why do people take you out to lunch one day and then the next day complain to your boss that you talk too much?! Why does someone say her wedding reception was “ruined” because her mother-in-law wore the wrong color dress? That's crazy, right? That's L.A., right? L.A. is making me crazy, right? 

In L.A., at a wedding I went to,High Quality mother of the bride dresses is on sale at cheap prices from Chinese a-line wedding dresses wholesaler. the only decorations were pictures of the bride — that's not right, is it? Giant posters of the bride? A website of the bride? A video of the bride on an endless loop? Party favors with teeny-tiny pictures of the bride? And she doesn't greet her guests because she's too busy getting more pictures taken! Is it me? That's crazy, right? Or do I just not appreciate how exciting it is to be young and beautiful? Should I hang out with the old and deformed? Would they like me better after plastic surgery? 

I can't even watch TV shows like “Entourage” or “Curb Your Enthusiasm” anymore because it's not funny. It's real! It's true! 

I watch the BBC a lot. I like them. Could I make friends in England? And go out for lunch and then a museum and nobody has to leave early to visit someone more fun? 

Is it the Internet? Am I 42 in real years but 95 in Internet years? Are my ideas of friendship, truth, sincerity, generosity and character “old-fashioned?” Is the difference between “real” friends and “virtual” friends not even a meaningful distinction anymore? Is the “face” in Facebook unnecessary? 

Am I too particular? If they invite me to a midnight karaoke bar in a bad part of town,Browse all styles Halter Wedding Dresses affordable at labeautes store. should I just say yes, down three Red Bulls, grit my teeth and bear it? Are they trying? Or were they counting on me saying no? 

Is there a place I can go where this “Laverne and Shirley” idea of friendship is alive and well? Or is my romantic idea just a dream? Should I just stage a retreat? Move to a lighthouse? 

Laverne Seeking Shirley